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Tuesday, 22 May 2012

Getting Real

Wow!!! It feels like I had the longest break ever but im back and ready to get real.I had a pretty interesting weekend more like one of those ones which get you crying and smiling at the same time.You know when I started blogging I felt as if I had experienced more so i was in a position to give advice but really-I was not.

A friend of mine got a call  that an old friend of hers had been  in  an accident and no  one could really tell her what happened so despite the fact that she lives so far from him she dared to go to an unfamiliar grounds.See this friend of mine in all the time they have been friends,she had never visited him.He had taken the role of doing the visiting.On her way to see him,she had so many thoughts of what and how he could be.It is in that moment that she realized she loved him so much that she could not imagine for a second not being with him.

Sounds like a fairy tale or a made up love story right?wrong.It is a true story so she says  and I believe her because I was with her the whole time.Back to the story,they finally met and thank Heaven he was still in one piece.It is events like this that you cant satirize,moments like this that you can't put in movies and expect the same human emotion.
I was not intending on it to be a love story but if that is what it takes to put my point across then I will allow it.Seeing my friend happy and relieved meant so much to me that the number of times we got lost did not matter.

Does that kind of love exists?I do not have an answer for that but my friend was beeming and for the first time in along time she was actually very happy and honest.Pure joy is what you can call that moment.You know the reality is- it is hard to have that but is it impossible?Hell no!Does it have to take that kind of awakening to really allow ourselves to love and to be loved?Do we always have to have a gurantee or can we just allow ourselves to be?
Reality sucks and there are so many pesimists but you know what my friend is experiencing has no logic or scientific formula to  and I will go right out and say Im glad I was with her to see that magic.

Tell me what you think.
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