I don't know if any of you remember this lyrics from Malcolm in the middle.I admit that was one great comedy if you have no idea what I am talking about just watch the Middle.It is a reflection of what was one of the best comedies of all time.I am not going to actually be talking about comedies today because then I would have totally lost plot.
I have made it my principle not to allow any Tom,Dick and Harry to speak into my life or define my worth.My apologies if your never is either of this three guys.I am not saying there are no people who are supposed to speak into your life of course there are but that line just reminded me about my late lecturer who used to say 'this is not a small BUT it is a BIIIIIIIG....BUT.Back to my topic you have the right to choose who.I love to surround myself with positive people, the world in itself is depressing so why hang out with people who will remind you that everyday.If you cannot however keep off then to survive you will have to grow shock absorbers.The most damaging words I have heard people describe come from those closest to them.
Everyone has the remote control in their hands you can flip the channel if the music playing does not entice you.The reason I say this is because the more you listen to the sinister comments made about you,the more it tends to actually come to being that is how much influence words have of our lives.I was watching some soap opera the other day and you know in the very strategic world of soaps,there was a jilted person trying to instill some doubt in the head of a former friend.He was right but at the time he was actually trying to speak to the friend,the friend would not budge in fact he pretended not to want to hear but truth be told plant a seed of doubt and the fruits will show up next.So the friend was second guessing himself and that is where the iron hits the nail,(I think that is how the saying goes).
I like to put my point of view as bare as possible to avoid being misjudged or misunderstood.Simply and clearly we are not always right neither are we always wrong but not everyone has the right to speak into our lives.We could be wrong and yet be corrected in ways that totally damage us where as someone else would have corrected us in the same way and with utmost HATE for the 'crime' and also considering the 'criminal'.Some people have never been in your shoes yet they will be the first to cast the first stone.Know who you want to allow to speak into your life because I believe essentially every word is a prophecy of your life whether you believe it or not.
